Sacrifice and Service

by Elisha on June 30, 2010

It is amazing to me how we live in a country with so much liberty and freedom to freely educate ourselves yet, there are so many constituents who are uninformed about the founding principles of our great nation. Many under the age of 18 have not read the Constitution. Many voters believe healthcare is a Constitutional right… because Obama told them so. None of those who believe this have been able to tell me exactly where in the Constitution we’re given “free” healthcare… I’m still waiting to learn.

Politicians today are more self absorbed and self righteous than ever before. They vote for laws that do not apply to themselves. They raise millions of dollars hob knobbing with the “elite rich” they claim to despise, then campaign from church pulpits whose speech and morals they wish to silence. Elected officials use society’s groupings to pitch each cast against each other. They are no better than the leaders Gandhi fought against.

Our founding fathers, although not perfect men, understood that the vision they had to create an America where all were equal to succeed, progress, and live their dreams was greater than them. They asked for no accolades or credit. They did not require praise or the worship of man. They only desired that their plan work and that it give America’s new citizens the right to choose their future and wellbeing. To ensure that there would be no monopoly of the minority or the majority they created our three branches of government: executive, legislative and judicial.

This week with the Elena Kagan hearings, we are reminded of the importance of every branch on the individual level. Every branch can help or hinder us and each branch can provide the checks and balances our forefathers intended.

Have you ever met an American soldier? Their self sacrifice, resolve, and spirit is stunning and inspiring. They are everything most politicians are not. Sure, among a few you have hard headed teenagers searching for meaning and purpose. But our talented and brilliant volunteer only military are able to hone and perfect skills and make an individual feel and know that they can make a difference.

Sometimes during campaigns politicians speak of how much they want to be different. They proclaim how when they are elected they intend to go against the grain on Capitol Hill. Sadly, most are wooed and persuaded to change their stance once they walk through those hallowed marbled halls. A few, like Cantor, Bachmann and others, stand strong and do not change the promises they made to their voters.

I have recently been reading about the great Christian hero Dietrich Bonhoeffer. In the biography, Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy written by Eric Metaxas, Metaxas notes that Bonhoeffer once made a speech on the radio about the importance of God being the sole leader of Germany. And that no man could take his place. He also noted that leaders need others around them to delegate things too, as they are human, they can only handle so much.  In my reading of the book it seems to me as if Bonhoeffer is stressing that a true leader will have the moral clarity to understand that he is imperfect, that he needs correction, and that he might need to do what the people need versus what the people want.

Bonhoeffer had this to say about a leader:

If he understands his function in any other way than as it is rooted in fact, if he does not continually tell his followers quite clearly of the limited nature of his task and of their own responsibility, if he allows himself to surrender to the wishes of his followers, who would always make him their idol – then the image of the Leader will pass over into the image of the mis-leader, and he will be acting in a criminal way not only towards those he leads, but also towards himself. The true Leader must always be able to disillusion. It is just this that is his responsibility and his real object. He must lead his following away from the authority of his person to the recognition of the real authority of orders and offices… He must radically refuse to become the appeal, the idol, i.e. the ultimate authority of those whom he leads… He serves the order of the state, of the community, and his service can be of incomparable value. But only so long as he keeps strictly in his place… [H]e has to lead the individual into his own maturity. Now a feature of a man’s maturity is responsibility towards other people, towards existing orders. He must let himself be controlled, ordered, restricted.

It is amazing that Bonhoeffer had the wherewithal in 1933, when this speech was given, to foresee problems that political leaders would have to deal with for years to come.

I personally challenge all who are considering running to read this. Make it a pledge to act on the previous paragraph. And, I challenge you the voter to remember this when you are looking for someone to lead your school, city, county or country. A man’s character is crucial when it comes to how he will make decisions when the pressure is on.

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Charity and Politics

by Elisha on June 16, 2010

Often when I speak to others in the millennial generation like myself, they try to explain their 2008 presidential votes to me to make themselves feel better. It always starts with, “Well… you know, I’m pro-life, but Obama just seemed like a great guy who wanted to change things and help people.” Then, they go on to talk about how as a Christian and a Conservative it is important for us to “help people.”

Historically, the Republican Party has done much more for civil rights, human rights, and medical aid in the US and abroad than the Democrats. This is something Erik Rush addresses in his new book Negrophilia. Also, historically Democrats cater to center-right and conservative voters in order to win general elections. If they know people will vote for them if they promise to be hospitable and helpful, then they are smart to use this as an election tactic. But, I often think of it just like that: a tactic.

Remember – who a politician is at home, as their philanthropic involvement or lack there of is who they will be in public office. Home being how they act in your community already.

A president and first lady have a huge platform and ability to raise issues and bring about awareness on a larger scale. Senator Hillary Clinton’s issue was healthcare, Laura Bush wanted women and children in the Middle East to have education and the opportunity to start their own businesses, and Michelle Obama’s is fighting childhood obesity.

After recently finishing Laura Bush’s Memoir Spoken from the Heart, I was amazed at all she did as a first lady to aid impoverished peoples in Africa, rehabilitate former addicts and gang members, and provide information and medicine to women in other parts of the world to fight breast cancer. I also realized that there are tons of organizations and charities the White House has to review before deciding which ones to support.

Ideally, one might find a candidate who they agree with on charity and politics. But, when electing someone to be the leader of the free world, their politics will be a stronger gauge on how they will run the country and help people than their charitable ideas.

Presidents, Senators, Governors and others in the political realm have the ability to craft laws and legislation that can change how certain victims are treated, create funds to help others, and provide education and aid to millions. The United States is one of the only countries in the world who actually has military vessels dedicated to serving the medical needs of citizens from and in third world countries. The USNS Mercy is an example of this. After the horrific earthquake in Haiti, the vessel was camped outside of Port Au Prince for weeks providing free medical aid to any and all who needed it. Now, the ship is docked off the shores of Cambodia providing aid there with another ship from Japan.

As much as many around the world despise Dick Cheney, the man often gives more than 10% of his earnings to charities, which ends up being millions upon millions of dollars. When Vice President Joe Biden’s tax records were released during the 2008 campaign, it was revealed that he and his wife (Jill) gave very little money or time to charities. As a matter of fact, they gave less than my husband and I… and we don’t make that much.

Cheney stood for freedom and liberty. Joe Biden just does Obama’s bidding, which tends to take away American’s freedom and liberty.

So, take a look at what someone does charitably and know that it is important to have caring and involved politicians. But know that their politics are what are going to drastically affect your life and the lives of those you want to help more.

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More Than A 3 Day Weekend

by Elisha on May 27, 2010

Whether you’re liberal, Independent, Libertarian or Conservative we can all agree that America is an amazing nation because our military is 100% volunteers. People make defending our freedoms their 9-5 job sometimes for beyond 20 and 30 years.

The traditions we enjoy this three day weekend that is Memorial Day is usually time at the beach, out on a boat, tubing on the lake, BBQs and an extra day away from the office. Sure, the additional day away from the city is great for me but it’s important to pause and remember why we have this day on our calendars.
After the civil war, townships and citizens would gather at historic battle sites to solemnly honor those men who had died to keep our nation from being divided and to liberate human beings from the horrors of the slave trade. Since then more and more towns across the country set aside a “Decoration Day” to remember the men and women who had fought and died in all of the wars. In 1967 Memorial Day became federally recognized holiday and always falls on the last Monday in May.

The image of the American soldier has changed over the years… he has gone from being a young man during WWII with slicked back hair while smoking a ciggy to the man or woman on the battlefield in the Mideast wearing full body armor using missile technology to fight.

Even though Memorial Day is a day to recognize and remember those who have so bravely fought and died while serving our country, I always use it as a day to thank those who are still alive and serving. My Dad and Gramps are retired military and my uncle is active duty; I call them every year on Memorial Day to say thank you. I’m honored to have friends and family who are so passionate about their country and so driven to protect their families and their homeland that they are willing to risk their lives. Seth, a married dad of a recent 1 yr old. A cousin who is done with boot camp and came hundreds of miles to our wedding. There are brothers, sisters, husbands, fathers, wives and mothers who serve.

So put down the beer, pick up the phone, and give someone you know a call. It’s the least you can do.

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The New GOP?

by Elisha on May 15, 2010

Recently, former First Lady, Laura Bush, came out with a touching memoir about her childhood, her life as a mom and her political experiences. During her interview rounds to promote the book, Laura Bush mentioned on Larry King Live that she was pro-choice and agreed in the rights for homosexuals to marry. This revelation created a firestorm (for about 24 hrs) as pundits, feminists, and the ladies of “The View” discussed what this could mean. Was she mad at her husband for his beliefs? Would she do a “No H8” photo session like Cindy McCain? Does this mean the GOP is changing its stance on these issues? I believe the answer to those questions is NO!

Mary Matalin and James Carville have been happily married for years. Mary is a staunch conservative who worked in the Bush White House and James is a well known Democratic strategist and CNN contributor. They have agreed to not talk about politics in front of their children and never appear on radio or TV together in debate form.

Barbara Bush famously disagreed with her husband on political issues and they’re still happily married.
During the 2008 presidential campaign, most of the population became aware of the different political views between the GOP Candidate and his daughter. We also knew (at least anyone who reads blogs and newspapers) that his wife did not agree with him on every single issue. Senator McCain himself was not the most conservative candidate either when it came to his views on immigration, campaign finance reform, and his inability to address the radical ties President Obama had to domestic terrorists.

All in all, these people do not represent the GOP. Read the party platform. Sure, there are many within the party who have differing points of view and that’s totally fine. We should dialogue, debate and accept those people. But, that does not mean that we need to accept what they stand for.

Often, the Republican Party tends to ostracize those who do not talk like us, look like us, or act like us. In order to move beyond our stereotype, we must accept each others’ view, culture, religion, and life issues. To accept them does not mean we are endorsing their views.

In many metropolitan cities there are voters who are “socially liberal and fiscally conservative.” I work with many of them. They don’t care about the right to life like we do, but they care about national security like we do. Let’s all work together on national security and strongly disagree on life issues then.

As long as the Republican Party stands strong on its principles, we can have level headed constituents who might agree with Megan McCain, but who overall care about the direction of this country.

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Get Involved

by Elisha on May 1, 2010

Since the age of 10 I’ve been a political geek. I remember watching Larry King Live with my grandparents during a sleep over night and a senator was commenting on the election between Dole/Kemp and Clinton/Gore. The senator said something that I thought was ridiculous and I decided to react aloud to the TV. My dear Pa said, “Elisha… now you’re only 10 and haven’t had that much life experience so if you’re going to correct an adult and talk to the TV like me then you need to be able to back it up.” He was right. We then delved into a conversation about politics and since that day I’ve constantly reminded myself of his advice.

Young voters are crucial! Young voters are what put former Senator and now President Obama on the political pedestal in the 2008 election. So why do so many people under the age of 30 say they don’t know what’s going on or don’t care about politics?

Almost every week I (for my job) am down in Penn Station with the task to find random strangers for my boss to interview. My boss then asks them simple questions from, “When is inauguration day?” to “How many justices sit on the supreme court?” Sometimes he’ll delve into bigger issues like whether they know the ins and outs of the healthcare bill. Here is where it’s scary; most 18, 20, and 30 year olds that I randomly choose have no idea that there are 9 Justices on the Supreme Court. Almost none know when inauguration day is… even those wearing a t-shirt that said, “bye Bush!”

We live in a time and place in which we have the ability to acquire knowledge easily and know what is going on in our community, state, nation and the world. We have access to Internet, newspapers, radio and television to educate ourselves. Read, watch and listen! Get to know what’s going on in the world (not just the USA) and figure out what your core issues are, what you stand for and believe in. Read all the party platforms from the Democrats to Libertarians to determine who you want to be affiliated with and go from there.

Let’s be honest, my generation has been persuaded that Republicans are rich white old country club members. Not true. The Republicans I know are of all ages and ethnicities. There’s a successful business owner from Brooklyn, NY who used to share a bedroom with 4 of her sisters and got into Cornell of her own merits and hard work. A single mom who’s going to school full time and worried about what she’ll do to keep her and her baby fed and clothed. A young professional out of college trying to navigate what’s next in his life while applying for jobs in finance. We’re a wide group and we’re welcoming. Don’t judge us by our cover.

One of the reasons we’re so quickly judged is that the left has been able to create a cadre of attacks against us that, when tested don’t line up. They’re able to mesmerize and awe gen x’ers and millenials with their former Facebook employees, journalists who join their campaigns, rock stars and celebrities. What does the right have? Values. Just because you care about human rights doesn’t mean the GOP won’t have you. Some of the greatest human rights reform occurred under the Bush administration and were championed by GW who considered himself a “compassionate conservative.”

Conservatives today should represent what younger generations want and desire. We stand for Freedom, liberty, capitalism, free enterprise, the importance of human rights and much more. Jason Mattera’s book Obama Zombies lays out this argument better than I ever could, so pick up a copy now. If people look at what matters instead of looking at what’s cool then they will know that politics are important and they should get involved.

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Don’t Forget the Heartland

by Elisha on April 24, 2010

This has to be one of my favorite quotes, “…fashion is not Middle America, and Middle America elects presidents.” Lesley M. M. Blume. If only those in “power” would remember this.

Being from a small town in Oklahoma I understand the hard work ethic, honesty and humble attributes that come with the traditional upbringing in most towns in America. Now that I live in New York City, it seems these attributes are scarce in the culture here. They get so wrapped up in fashion week, museums, Wall St. and climbing the social ladder that they forget about middle America. They forget their food came from there, their gasoline that fuels their cars came from there, coal to help with electricity, and even the free range chicken their favorite restaurant provides, come from there. And often, those in the “big city” forget where they come from.

More politicians these days are like the aspiring fashionista in Manhattan. They can be from the middle of nowhere Texas but the moment they think they’ve become better than anyone else, they forget the people who put them there. They forget the promises they made to their constituents. And often, they think they’re above any consequences for their idiotic and selfish actions.

With the existing technology and news platforms available to us, we should all have sufficient access to what is really going on in D.C. We can no longer just sit back and play dumb as our elected leaders take our money and do nothing good while they’re supposed to be serving us in Washington. We no longer have an excuse for being politically ignorant by reading the news, reading the bills, following them on social media and reaching out to their offices

If you’re not satisfied with your congressman, senator or other officials then let them know. I once heard from a friend on “the Hill” that for every phone call they get, their office estimates that represents 100 constituents. For every email 500. For every letter 1,000! Your actions and words do count, your vote counts more!

Let yourself be heard and remind politicians everywhere not to forget you.

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The Person Not the Party

by Elisha on April 20, 2010

Are you a Republican? A Democrat? How many times have you been asked this question? I personally hate this question. Your personal political beliefs shouldn’t be confined to a party or a title. Some people make their political decisions on religious morals, financial situation, family background or because they are influenced by others. How do you make your political decisions?

I’ve always been about supporting and voting for a person and not the party and want to encourage you to do the same.

I’m from a very small town in the middle of nowhere. Actually, nowhere probably has a bigger population than where I was raised. Anyway, where I was raised, everyone is registered Democrat. When my mother moved there 20 years ago and went to register Republican she was actually told by a government official, “Don’t register Republican! If you do then you can’t vote around here.” Why? Because everyone calls themselves “yellow dog Democrats.” Their great grandpa was a Democrat, their grandpa was a Democrat, and so goes the next generation. Despite being warned that she “wouldn’t be able to vote” my mother registered with the party that best represented how she stood politically, as a Republican. Has my mother voted for a Democrat, absolutely, and there’s nothing wrong with that!

Just like you should choose a political party because of your beliefs aligning with theirs, that’s how you should choose a candidate.

It’s likely that as a Republican, some Democrats, like Congressman Dan Boren, might just please your desires for a politician because he may support some important issues to you. Or if you’re a Democrat you may support and vote for a Republican like Kay Baily Hutchison pro union.

A couple of examples of how people change in there politics: Michele Bachmann is a new Republican superstar and she was raised a Democrat and most in her district are registered Democrat. Senator Joe Lieberman who was a lifelong Democrat switched to the Independent party after the Democrat party took some actions that he didn’t agree with, he still won his seat back as an Independent.

Be open to look at each candidate individually, and not just vote for a person because of the R or D after his name. Suggestion: decide the top three issues important to you and your family. For example, taxes, defense and healthcare, then look at the candidates individually to determine which one best agrees with your concerns. For me it’s pro=life, national defense and taxes. When reading and researching the candidates remember it is a person representing you, not a party.

If we, as a nation, focus on the persons we are electing, maybe we will see some improvements in Washington D.C and around the nation.

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It’s been a year…

by Elisha on April 15, 2010

Last year on April 15th thousands of Americans all across this country gathered on the steps of city halls, capitol buildings, and in public parks to share their protest of the increased taxes coming to middle class Americans due to the stimulus package and other bills being passed on the Hill. Since many of those Americans could not get to DC to personally visit their congressmen they decided to call, email and protest in their neighborhoods in the hopes that their voices would be heard.

Did it work? Not completely. Week after week went by and bipartisan organizations along with many others gathered research, continued to protest and attended “town halls” that representatives had set up as a forum for voters to come and express their concerns. In those town halls it was determined by congressional staff who was and wasn’t allowed to question their elected officials. So when the tea parties and the townhalls failed to get Washington’s attention voters went to the polls. Chris Christie in NJ, Scott Brown in MA and Bob McDonnell in VA are examples of how when Washington doesn’t listen the people will show them what they think. In 2010 there has been a movement of some conservatives who are frustrated with the GOP and would prefer to create a 3rd party “Tea Party.”

Even though the NRCC and GOP made big mistakes in NY with endorsing Scozzafava over Hoffman we cannot let one example of a mistake ruin the chance of conservatism to take back the Republican party and take back the overly liberal House and Senate in DC. I’ll end with this brilliant thought from Ronald Reagan, “Our people look for a cause to believe in. Is it a third party we need, or is it a new and revitalized second party, raising a banner of no pale pastels, but bold colors which make it unmistakably clear where we stand on all of the issues troubling the people?”

We must and can raise the banner. We can transform the GOP and we can take our country back through exercising our rights of free speech and voting.

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Happy Hour

by Elisha on April 2, 2010

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10K+ in 1 Month

by Elisha on April 2, 2010

We raised $11,030 for Stop Child Trafficking Now!

Within the month of March and launching the “10 for 10” campaign we reached our goal!  I couldn’t have done it without you all.  Your support, monies and spreading the word worked!   That money will go so far in helping to stop child trafficking and bringing justice and freedom to thousands of children here in the United States and abroad who are trapped every single day.

Tonight I’ve been invited to join Rebecca Diamond on the Fox Business Network show, Happy Hour, to give an update about the campaign and discuss human trafficking.  Please tune in!  I’m excited for this opportunity to continue to spread the word about this cause.

Don’t Stop Donating… $ Will Still Go to SCTNow

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